There's an anonymous quote that goes, "What other people think of me is none of my business." It took me a long time to learn that and to believe it, to embrace it, and to practice it. As women in recovery from any of the things, we often have low self-esteem and a lot of self-doubt.
And I wasted years of my life worrying about what other people thought of me. I mostly thought that they thought badly of me, although I never had any evidence of that, and truthfully, they had no reason to think poorly of me.
I can honestly say I don't worry about it at all today. I'm sure that some people do think various things about me.
I can't say what they are or if the things they think are good or bad, right or wrong. It just doesn't matter.
The only opinion about me that matters is my opinion of myself.